Getting Dumped: The Hard Truth and

How to Face It 

“Getting dumped” is an unfortunate choice of words that really doesn’t apply in any situation, unless of course you are dirt composite and are being dumped by a truck for construction purposes.  People don’t get dumped from their job, just as they don’t get dumped by their lovers.  The more accurate understanding is that a person is rejected. "Getting dumped” is a colloquialism that expresses the feelings of pain and self-doubt that accompanies relationship rejection. 

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The Reasons Behind Getting Dumped

In order to successfully overcome a rejection in dating, one must first come to terms with why the relationship ended.  He or she must accept that the relationship is indeed over, and that no more games are being played.  This doesn’t necessarily mean that the two lovers will never cross paths again.   However, it is important that the rejected lover come to terms with the reality of the situation.  Getting dumped, as colloquially expressed, is just a fact of life.  It happens, and it will probably happen to you at least once in a lifetime, if not several times. 

Why are people rejected?  Why do relationships not work out?  There are many reasons why a relationship fails, and many of these reasons are truly complex.  However, in order for you to move on from this ugly chapter in your life you must embrace simplicity.  Accept the fact that the relationship simply didn’t work out.  It’s not necessary to play the blame game.  It is human nature to want an explanation as to why you were rejected by a person that you saw as flawless.  However, no explanation is ever truly satisfying.

Embrace simplicity by acknowledging that you both attempted a relationship and that it was ultimately an incompatible one.  Sometimes relationships can be deceiving.  It has taken some couples upwards of 20 years to realize that they were incompatible.  Some people just know within a few minutes of meeting their would-be lover that they are not meant to be together.  Those are the lucky ones, in a way.  The less heartbreak that is involved with failed relationships, the better!  If only everyone were so lucky as to have a radar that said “warning: incompatible!” whenever two people started dating.  Of course, you probably wouldn’t believe the radar at the time…only in retrospect and after the radar is shut down and stuffed in the closet. 

Accepting the Truth About Getting Dumped

Nevertheless, this helps to illustrate the point that getting dumped is not the end of the world—in fact, it’s hardly a surprise.  Sexual attraction, and even genuine human compassion, can deceive your perception of another person.  A person can be deceived into thinking that he or she loves another person and that means they are simply “meant to be together.”  Often times however, a person’s sexual attraction is the motivational igniter in this instance.  Your relationship may not have been motivated by attraction alone.  If you are a mature person then you probably grew to love your ex-partner over time.  You came to respect their opinions and feelings and to treat them perhaps even like your own family—your future husband or wife.

If this is true then you should applaud yourself, because you have truly given everything possible to the attempted relationship.  You have demonstrated that you are capable of loving and giving love.  The fact that your partner was not ready for the next step (or perhaps that they didn’t love you enough in return) has nothing to do with your value as a human being.  All a rejection (getting dumped) means is that one of the two partners accepted the fact that the relationship would not be livable in the long-run.  In the end, you want to be with the person who makes you happy and whom you can make happy—with no looking back. 

Accept the truth and separate the relationship’s end from the idea of personal failure.  Just because the relationship didn’t work out doesn’t mean it was a waste of your time.  You benefited from the relationship, you learned from it, and you and your partner enjoyed many pleasant memories that will never be forgotten.  This is what a rejection really means. 

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